The art of communicating with others one of the most important communication arts to communicate with people successfully more effective than visual skills
You will not see in this life a successful person in his life unless you will find that he knows how to communicate well with others and that he has the ability to the art of communication and has the ability to understand you and that no matter what problems happen between you, he has the ability to be flexible in dealing with you.We deal with our family at home a lot, and if we are not able to deal with our our family at home or we have problems with them,so how will we deal with other people outside the home?
What is the art of communication?
To know how to communicate with others, you must learn two important communication types:
first type (internal communication)
Second type (external communication)
To know what is perception, what is focus, and what ideas are and to train on it.
Academic education alone does not help in your personality, thinking, and communication with others, you will graduate from your university with many information, but you cannot deal or control your emotions or you do not have goals, so students in schools and universities did not learn to study life and how if you pass a challenge, how will you overcome it.
First: The Art of Internal Communication:
Example: A person has a problem at his work , so he focuses all his attention on this problem and how much he is a failure in his work and then he feel how he has miserable life, and he forgets that he has excellent health and does not have any diseases and he forgets also that his children are well and none of them is a patient with cancer, for example, and he forgets that he has something not everyone has.
This is because he poured every focus on something negative in his life, so his subconscious mind canceled all positive things in his life and this is the art of internal communication that he didn't know or practise.
Life is the pillar, If you do not succeed in one corner, then base your success on another corner:
Today life's challenges have become difficult, but when you face the challenge, you must first see yourself, your personality, your ideas, and how you relate to others , no one lives without new challenges that come across during his life.
Example: If problems occur in your work and you focus on these problems, then you think that you have failed in your life and return to your wife and children and mistreat them even though they are the cause of another success in your life. Understand your family and you have to focus on this success and to develop it and not to make any failure in any other field causes you to destroy all other successes and lose everyone and lose your life.
You must face life's challenges, as God is the one who puts it in order to change the course of your life and succeed in another field, but in a different way, after your experiences in life have increased.
This is the art of internal communication on your own: to control your subconscious mind and your negative feelings and turn them into positive ones and not let them affect your life completely.
Second: The Art of External Communication:
You may find that your life is very difficult and this is because of just one word which is "contact with the outside world."
For example, you are harmed by your boss or that you cannot deal with your wife, and also the wife does not know how to deal with her husband, and there are problems between them and each one can't listen or understand the other mind.
Here all of them did not notice the amount of focus that each of theme's minds did on the negative things that the other did. This is one of the laws of the subconscious, where the subconscious mind cancels all positive things for the other person and only generalizes the negative things and this may lead us to divorce.
Example: You may have a friend for a long time, but when you tell you to focus on him in a negative way, and here if you try to think about him again, the human mind will think of you with your last focus on him, which was negative.
Your way of thinking and your behavior are the ones that lead to your success. Do not ask anyone if he is successful or not, but look at his behavior, thinking and method of communication. This is what will determine his success in life or not.
It is not important to be successful in your studies or any degree you hold if you do not know how to deal and communicate in a correct manner with those around you from the world.
The art of communicating with others is the secret of success in any field of life:
1- The important thing is not what you
learned, but what you became after you learned:
2- Success is not secrets but strategies :
3- Success results :
4-Whenever you resist the other person, they will resist you:
A simple example: When you try to feed your little boy a food he does not like, but you love it, and you find while feeding him that he resists you and does not want to swallow it and he begins to choke because you are determined to feed him food you love. Here you are resisting his unwillingness to eat because your belief that he should be like you loves this food while he is also resisting you to the point that he will suffocate and will not swallow this food. But the surprise is that if you combine this same food with another food of different color and smell, you will eat it and love it.
And this is also the art of communication that you deal in a way that is in front of you and by nature it is not your nature so that you can communicate with his mind in an easy way.
So when you find the other person resisting you, know very well that you must change your way with him, and if you continue in your initial way, you will find that you differ on the simplest things because of his resistance to you from the beginning.
The Power of Communication Art:
Evolution of force principle:
The first stage: "the strong person":
He was previously the strong person people feared and respected.
The second stage "Power of authority":
The third stage "Power of money":
The fourth stage "The Power of the Art of Communication":
Why the art of communication is the language of leadership?
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